Showing posts with label Gentleness. Show all posts
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Wednesday, March 5, 2025

Ash Wednesday/Lent

Jubilee Holy Year 2025: Pilgrims of Hope

March is the month dedicated to Saint Joseph

April is the month dedicated to the Divine Mercy

Thoroughly wash me from my guilt.

MARY, VIRGIN MOST POWERFUL,
MARY, MOTHER OF HOPE,
SAINT JOSEPH, SUPPORT IN DIFFICULTIES,
SAINT MICHAEL THE ARCHANGEL,
PRAY FOR US.

DIVINE MERCY, SWEET RELIEF FROM ANGUISHED HEARTS,
I TRUST IN YOU.

Welcome to Ash Wednesday and the days following up to the First Sunday of Lent, now in March dedicated to Saint Joseph, the month that leads us to the month of April, the month dedicated to the Divine Mercy. 

Often, we enter the holy season of Lent with vigor and enthusiasm. We pray to cleanse ourselves of all that keeps us from growing closer to the Lord. We repent and ask our Lord for forgiveness for our faults and failings, to seek reconciliation with our neighbors, especially those with whom we live and work. And with that we add to the usual measure of our service something by way of private prayer and abstinence from food and drink, or in other words, we deny ourselves some food, drink, sleep, needless talking and idle jesting, as Saint Benedict teaches in Chapter 49 of the Holy Rule, "The Observance of Lent." As laudatory as all this is, it came to me this morning, tired already, that perhaps it might help to enter these holy days gently. It can happen that our initial vigor wanes as the days go on. The daily happens and we experience setbacks and just do not seem to be following our initial Lenten program so to speak. So, why not enter these days fully engaged, with a certain vigor, but simultaneously remember the God of mercy who loves us tenderly, with compassion and love. Remember, as Venerable Fulton Sheen said, "You are infinitely precious because you are loved by God." Infinitely precious; no matter what. Together, united in faith and prayer, whatever we offer to God these days, we want to offer it with the joy of the Holy Spirit so as to look forward to holy Easter with joy and spiritual longing (See RB 49).  We are in the Jubilee Holy Year of Hope. And, as Saint Paul writes, "Hope does not disappoint, because the love of God has been poured out into our hearts through the Holy Spirit that has been given to us" (Romans 5:5). Be full of the love of God that has been given to you. His Love will sustain you. And remember with me: "I have the strength for everything through Him who empowers me" (Philippians 4:13). 

Hope is knowing that I have
been forgiven, my guilt removed.

Hope is knowing that there is a future,
a life after death.

Hope is knowing that there is love,
that there is a God,
and I am loved by Him.
Whatever happens He does care.

Hope is knowing that He has plans,
even if I do not understand them.
(Cardinal Basil Hume, The Mystery of Love)

As it has become an annual Lenten practice, I offer the following passed along to me some years ago by a friend of Cardinal Basil Hume, Cardinal Arthur Roche, Prefect of the Dicastery of Divine Worship and Discipline of the Sacraments. 

Fast from judging others; feast on the Christ indwelling in them.
Fast from emphasis on differences; feast on unity of life.
Fast from apparent darkness; feast on the reality of light.
Fast from words that pollute; feast on phrases that purify.
Fast from discontent; feast on gratitude.
Fast from anger; feast on patience.
Fast from pessimism; feast on optimism.
Fast from worry; feast on trust.
Fast from compliance; feast on appreciation.
Fast from negatives; feast on affirmatives.
Fast from unrelenting pressures; feast on unceasing prayer.
Fast from hostility; feast on nonviolence.
Fast from self-concern; feast on compassion for others.
Fast from personal anxiety; feast on eternal truth.
Fast from discouragement; feast on hope.
Fast from facts that depress; feast on truths that uplift.
Fast from lethargy; feast on enthusiasm.
Fast from suspicion; feast on truth.
Fast from thoughts that weaken; feast on promises that inspire.
Fast from idle gossip; feast of purposeful silence.

Gentle God, during this season of fasting and feasting, gift us with Your presence, so that we can be a gift to others in carrying out Your work. Amen.

Some other voices for this holy season ...

In this Holy Lent, let us lift up our hearts and always go forward to the triumph of the reign of Christ in society.
(Blessed, soon to be Saint, Pier Giorgio Frassati, 1901-1925)

Preparation for Lent begins with desire. We exist to desire God. As Saint Augustine says, "My heart is restless until it rests in Thee." In this is the preparation for Lent; touching a desire for God that is deep down in the heart. Desire is like a flame, it starts small and it grows. Lent should fan our desire for God into a bonfire ...
(Servant of God Catherine de Heuck Doherty, 1896-1985)

No sound ought to be heard in the Church but the healing voice of Christian charity.
(Edmund Burke, 1729-1797, in Taylor Caldwell, No One Hears But Him)

Lord, Jesus, open our hearts that we may hear, so that when we open our lips, our utterances may build up your Church.
(Father Richard Veras, in Magnificat, "The Sacred Act of Listening," February 2, 2025, p. 34)

Charity is a right attitude of mind which prefers nothing to the knowledge of God.
(From the chapters On Charity by Saint Maximus the Confessor, abbot, in Office of Readings, 7th Sunday in Ordinary Time)

I gradually gained a bit of satisfaction from being considered an extremist. Was not Jesus an extremist in love? - "Love your enemies, bless them that curse you, pray for them that despitefully use you" ... Was not Paul an extremist for the gospel of Jesus Christ? - "I bear in my body the marks of the Lord Jesus" ... Was not Thomas Jefferson and extremist? - "We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal." So the question is not whether we will be extremist, but what kind of extremists will we be. Will we be extremists for hate, or will we be extremists for love ...
(Martin Luther King Jr., 1929-1968, Letter from Birmingham Jail)

You must be in right earnest, or you will do little or nothing for God.
(Saint Elizabeth Ann Seton, 1774-1821)

And parting words from a fellow American, enough to keep us busy for the days which make up a life that, as Saint Benedict says, should be a continuous Lent ...

To a great extent the world is what we make of it. We get back what we give. If we sow hate, we reap hate; if we scatter love and gentleness we harvest love and happiness. Other people are like a mirror which reflects back on us the kind of image we cast. The kind person bears with the infirmities of others, never magnifies trifles, and avoids a spirit of fault finding.
(Venerable Fulton Sheen, 1895-1979)

SAINT CHAD,
SAINT DAVID,
BLESSED CHARLES THE GOOD, COUNT OF FLANDERS,
SAINT KATHERINE DREXEL,
SAINT VIGNAL,
SAINT CASIMIR,
SAINT KIERAN, 
SAINT KYNEBURGHA,
POPE SAINT LUCIUS I, MARTYR,
SAINT JOHN JOSEPH OF THE CROSS,
SAINTS PERPETUA AND FELICITY,
SAINT STEPHEN OF OBAZINE, CISTERCIAN ABBOT,
SAINT JOHN OF GOD,
SAINT SENAN, BISHOP,
SAINT DUTHAC,
SAINT FELIX,
SAINT AENGUS,
SAINT CONSTANTINE, 
SAINT AUREA,
SAINT JOHN OGILVIE,
SAINT RODERICK,
SAINT THEOPHANUS,
BLESSED JOHN ANNE,
SAINT MATILDA,
SAINT LOUIS DE MARILLAC,
SAINT PATRICK, BISHOP, MISSIONARY,
SAINT CYRIL OF JERUSALEM, BISHOP, DOCTOR,
SAINT EDWARD THE MARTYR, 
BLESSED JAN TYRANOWSKI,
SAINT JOSEPH,
SERVANT OF GOD BLANDINA SEGALE,
SAINT HERBERT,
SAINT CUTHBERT,
SAINT BENEDICT,
SAINT ENDA,
SAINT DEOGRATIUS, 
SAINT NICHOLAS OWEN, 
SAINT LEA OF ROME,
BLESSED CLEMENS AUGUST VAN GALEN,
SAINT JOHN OF EGYPT,
SAINT ELIZABETH ANN SETON,
POPE SAINT JOHN PAUL II,
SAINT FRANCIS OF PAOLA, HERMIT,
SAINT ISIDORE OF SEVILLE, BISHOP, DOCTOR,
SAINT VINCENT FERRER, PRIEST,
SAINT JOHN BAPTIST DE LA SALLE,
SAINT STANISLAUS, BISHOP, MARTYR,
SAINT PETER CHANEL, PRIEST, MARTYR,
SAINT LOUIS MARIE GRIGNION DE MONTFORT,
SAINT CATHERINE OF SIENA, VIRGIN, DOCTOR,
POPE SAINT PIUS V,
PRAY FOR US.

Today's photo: And of my sin cleanse me.

© Gertrude Feick 2025

Tuesday, August 16, 2022

Tuesday of the Twentieth Week in Ordinary Time

Saints: Saint Stephen of Hungary, First King of Hungary, Patron Saint of Hungary (969-1038); Saint Rock (-1378); Blessed Maria Sagrario of Saint Aloysius Gonzaga (1881-1936)

Readings of the Day

Rule of Saint Benedict: Ch 61:6-14 The Reception of Visiting Monks 

Mass: Ezk 28:1-10; Resp Ps (Dt 32); Mt 19:23-30

Surely, the Lord shall do justice for His people.

MARY, QUEEN OF PEACE,
HEART OF MARY, HOLOCAUST OF DIVINE LOVE,
PRAY FOR US.

The younger monks, then, must respect their seniors, and the seniors must love their juniors ...
they should each try to be the first to show respect to the other.
(Rule of Saint Benedict, 58:10, 17/Rom 12:10)

With Saint Benedict's teaching from the 6th century, and Saint Stephen's counsel for his son Emeric in the 10th-11th century, all the faithful are given sound advice.  O, the beauty of our faith tradition. Let us be thankful.

Be merciful to all who are suffering violence, keeping always in your heart the example of the Lord who said: I desire mercy and not sacrifice. Be patient with everyone, not only with the powerful, but also the weak ... 
Be humble in this life, that God may raise you up in the next. Be truly moderate and do not punish or condemn anyone immoderately. Be gentle so that you may never oppose justice. Be honorable so that you may never voluntarily bring disgrace upon anyone. Be chaste so that you may avoid all the foulness of lust like the pangs of death.
(From admonitions to his son by Saint Stephen, in Office of Readings, August 16)

With God all things are possible ...
Everyone who has given up houses or brothers or sisters or father or mother or children or lands for the sake of my name will receive a hundred times more, will inherit eternal life. But many who are first will be last, the last will be first.
(Mt 19:26, 29-30)

SAINT STEPHEN OF HUNGARY,
SAINT ROCK,
BLESSED MARIA SAGRARIO OF SAINT ALOYSIUS GONZAGA,
PRAY FOR US.

Today's photo: More than a few things around here are healthy and green. Discard not the work of your hands, Lord.

© Gertrude Feick 2022

Friday, July 9, 2021

Friday of the Fourteenth Week in Ordinary Time

Year of Saint Joseph

Year of the Family "Amoris Laetitia The Joy of Love"

Saints: Saint Augustine Zhoa Rong and his Companions, Martyrs in China between 1648 and 1930; The Martyrs of Gorcum (-1572); Saint Paulina of the Heart of the Dying Jesus (1865-1942); Saint Leo Ignatius Mangin, Mary Zhu Wu and Companions, Martyrs in China (-1900); Bl Jane Scopelli (1428-1491)

Readings of the Day

RB: Ch 31:13-19

Mass: Gn 46:1-7, 28-30; Resp Ps 37; Mt 10:16-23

The Lord watches over the lives of the wholehearted; their inheritance lasts forever.

HEART OF JESUS, FULL OF GOODNESS AND LOVE,
HAVE MERCY ON US.

Something to keep in mind and heart today is more from Saint Benedict's chapter on the Qualifications of the Monastery Cellarer, especially as we prepare to celebrate the Solemnity of Saint Benedict on Sunday, July 11. The reading from the Holy Rule today has Saint Benedict quoting the Book of Sirach with this: A kind word is better than the best gift (Sir 18:17/RB 31:14). 

It is better for a man to confess his sins than to harden his heart.
(From a letter to the Corinthians by Saint Clement, pope, in Office of Readings, Fourteenth Week in Ordinary Time, Friday)

SAINT AUGUSTINE ZHOA RONG AND HIS COMPANIONS,
THE MARTYRS OF GORCUM,
SAINT PAULINA OF THE HEART OF THE DYING JESUS,
SAINT LEO IGNATIUS MANGIN, MARY ZHU WU AND COMPANIONS,
BLESSED JANE SCOPELLI,
SAINT JOSEPH,
PRAY FOR US.

Today's photo: A contribution from the Otto Family, here in Prairie Creek Redwood State Park, Orick, CA.

© Gertrude Feick 2021


Wednesday, August 1, 2018

Saint Alphonsus Ligouri

Wednesday of the Seventeenth Week in Ordinary Time

Readings of the Day
RB: Ch 50 Those Whose Work Takes Them a Long Distance from the Oratory
Mass: Jr 15:10, 16-21; Resp Ps 59; Mt 13:44-46


Alphonsus Liguori
Bishop, Doctor of the Church
(1696-1787)